聽神談【關係的「找尋」與「創造」】1/2 篇
關係(Relationship)的目的是:
經由與別人分享自己的人生,而「創造」喜悅、快樂、完整和滿足。
在新靈性的日子裡,人類將不再視「關係」為一個滿足需要的手段。
尼爾:我不是說「滿足需要」?我說的是「找尋喜悅」。
「找尋」與「創造」之間有巨大的差別。
如果你在找尋某樣東西,你就並沒擁有它,而如果你沒擁有它,你將想像你需要它。
你無法從「你認為你沒有的東西」中創造出那樣的東西。
(You can only create something out of something you have.)
摘自《走出靈性文盲》第6章
The purpose of a relationship is : to create joy and happiness, completion and fulfillment, through the sharing of life with another.
In the days of the New Spirituality human relationships will no longer be seen as a means of need fulfillment.
Neale: Who said anything about fulfilling needs? I was talking about finding joy.
There’s a huge difference.
If you’re finding something, you do not have it, and if you do not have it, you will imagine that you need it.
You can only create something out of something you have.