聽神談【關於人類享受「性」的相關建言】
尼爾:性是OK的嗎?拜託你照實說,在這人類經驗背後的真實故事是什麼?
享受性當然是可以的。我再說一次,如果我不要你們玩某些遊戲,我就不會給與你們那些玩具。難道你會給你的孩子們你不想要他們玩的東西嗎?
與性遊戲。與它遊戲吧!它非常美妙樂趣,不是嗎?如果你只嚴格地以「身體的經驗」來說,它幾乎是你用你的身體所能享有的最好玩的事。
但是,看在老天份上,不要由於濫用(misuse)性而毀掉性的無邪、歡愉,以及其樂趣與喜悅的單純性。不要為了權力或隱藏的目的而利用它;不要為自我滿足或把持別人而利用它;不要為不是「給與和分享彼此最純粹的喜悅和最高的狂喜」——那即愛與被重新創造的愛——的任何目的而用它。
摘自《與神對話 I》第14章
Neale: Is sex okay? C’mon—what is the real story behind this human experience?
Of course sex is “okay.” Again, if I didn’t want you to play certain games, I wouldn’t have given you the toys. Do you give your children things you don’t want them to play with?
Play with sex. Play with it! It’s wonderful fun. Why, it’s just about the most fun you can have with your body, if you’re talking of strictly physical experiences alone.
But for goodness sake, don’t destroy sexual innocence and pleasure and the purity of the fun, the joy, by misusing sex. Don’t use it for power, or hidden purpose; for ego gratification or domination; for any purpose other than the purest joy and the highest ecstasy, given and shared—which is love, and love recreated—which is new life!