【面對負面消極的人，什麼是你可以展現的？】
巴夏精選短片(3分55秒)：【面對負面消極的人，什麼是你可以展現的？】Bashar297
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【面對負面消極的人，什麼是你可以展現的？】
Q: We’re talked about…You know, looking at all people’s experiences as a different lens to see our own experience or our own existence.
Q：我們曾經談過…所謂的…就像戴上不同的鏡片，在觀察不同人們的經驗，以看見自己的經歷，或明白自己的存在。
Yes, you can do that.
是的，你們可以這樣做。
Q: Well, let me… Umm…Let me back up then…
Q: 好的，讓我…嗯…讓我補充說明一下…
All right.
沒問題。
Q: Just… Be appreciating other people’s perspectives… Umm… As a necessary part of our understanding of the whole.
Q: 只是…以欣賞別人的觀點…嗯…來作為我們理解「人類全是一體」過程中的一個必要部分。
Yes. Because all relationships are for the purpose of everyone in the relationship reflecting to the other what they need to know to become more of themselves.
是的。因為所有的「關係」對於每個人的目的，都是為了：反映給彼此「對方需要知道的」以越來越成為真實的自己(本是的自己，本我)。
Whether people know intentionally or consciously, or not.
不論人們是(因了解關係的目而)有意地或有意識地，或無意識地這樣做。
So, you can use it that way for yourself, regardless of what anyone else’s perspective or intention is in the relationship or the reflection.
因此，你可以以此方式使用它(有意識地使用關係的目的)，不論在這「關係」裡的任何人的觀點和意圖是什麼，或他們從關係中收到的反映是什麼。
And it doesn’t mean that just because you see a certain trade in someone that is necessarily something that you have to work on identically.
而這並不表示，只因為你看到某人在做某事，就必然是「你必須以相同方式回應」對方。
You may simply be allowing them to see something in you that they need.
你可以只是讓他們能從你身上所展現的言行，看到某「他們需要」看到的東西。
The idea is that the degree to which a reflection means something to you can vary.
這概念是告訴你：你(及對別人)「對某事物會反映出的意思」的程度，可能有很大的不同。
You have to be the determining factor as to what is relevant for you in your interactions and reflections with others.
在你與他人的互動和互映中，你必須成為「什麼是(哪些是、哪些不是)與你有關連的事物」的決定者。
Q: So, in an effort to have the most…
Q: 所以，以努力獲得最大的收穫… (意思是：「以努力獲得…」所處的狀態和所散發出的是一種「你並不是、你並沒有」的能量振頻。)
In a what? In an effort?
以什麼？努力？
Q: To be most understanding and compassionated of others perspective.
Q: (提問者反應很快，立即懂巴夏的意思而改說)以最能「了解並體諒他人觀點」的態度。
Yes.
沒錯。
Q: And especially when we need or see at least here… Umm, you know…of situations of other people’s experiences and actions and that just so far from what I could potentially relate to.
Q: 特別是當我們需要或至少看到這…嗯，你知道的…嗯…別人所經歷的處境和行為的情況，而那真的和我可能經歷的關連性相距甚遠，
Q:You know, potentially Charles Manson or others, something like that.
Q: 你知道的，像是查爾斯曼森(美國惡名昭彰殺人犯、邪教領袖)或這類的人可能經歷的關連性。
Yes.
Q: Other than pointing out the…, you know…,the extreme nature of human experience what other lessons might…
Q: 除了指出…你知道的…人類經驗的最大本質外，還有什麼其他的課題…
Well, you can understand that even though you may prefer the idea of a positive energy, you can still observe the idea that many people may be choosing negativity.
嗯，你可以理解到「即使你可能喜歡正向能量，但你仍會觀察到很多人可能選擇了負面消極」的概念。
But that’s only because those are the tools they have been given.
那是因為他們僅被給予那樣的工具。(僅被教導那樣的思維反應，不知道其他的工具，而沒有其他思維方式的教導。)
So, the ideas to be compassionate enough to give them an opportunity to see in you, and share with them other options that will allow them to discover more of who they truly are.
因此，這概念是，要有足夠的憐憫心來給他們一個機會，以看見你的正向態度和信念，並與他們分享他們可以「讓自己發現更多真實的自己」的其他選擇。
At the same time, it’s important to be unconditionally compassionate and loving enough to allow him to choose what is it that they believe is possible for them.
與此同時，讓自己處於足夠的「無條件的關愛」非常重要，讓他們選擇「什麼是他們相信對他們可行有益」的事物。
Now, it doesn’t mean that you need to condone those kinds of negative actions. Everyone in that sense is responsible to themselves to be who they truly are.
這裡請注意，處於足夠的「無條件的關愛」並不表示你需要縱容那些負面行為，在某意義上，每個人都要為「成為真實的自己」這件事負責。
But guiding them, giving them examples, being a living example for them of other options, other ways they can find self-empowerment is what you can do to help.
只是指導他們，給予他們一些例子，成為一個他們的活榜樣，以讓他們做出不同的選擇，找到他們可以賦予自己力量的方法，是你可以幫助他們的事。
But the ideas is that people usually only act in negative ways, because they simply don’t know any other way to express the idea of connection that they desperately wish to create.
而這概念在提醒你們的是：人們通常只會用消極的(思維)方式在反應，因為他們只是不知道還有其他能表達「他們迫切希望創造的連結」的方式。
The idea simply is they’ve only been taught the negative tools. They’ve only been taught that they lack power, and they think once they believe they lack power, they think the only way to achieve powers is to dominate and control the outside environment.
他們只是已被教導要用那些「負面工具」。他們只被教導認為「自己是缺乏力量的」，而當他們相信自己沒有力量，他們會認為取得力量的唯一方式就是：去統治和控制外在的環境。
Because they believe that they are separate from it, and must in some way blend with it, but they don’t know how to. They don’t understand they are already blending with it.
因為他們相信自己與外在環境是分離的，而必須以某種方式與之融合，但是他們不知道怎樣去融合。他們不明白自己與外界已經是一體了。
They don’t understand that everything already is One.
他們不明白所有萬物已經是「一體」。
And so, they strive and stretch to do things that would make them in their mind think that they would be more powerful, but which are only expressions of their belief in their disempowerment.
因而，他們汲汲營營地在做各種「會讓他們在自己心目中看起來更強大」的事情。但那些只是他們對「自己是沒有力量的」的信念之展現(表達)罷了。
Showing them, demonstrating them, teaching them, sharing with them that they are truly already, totally empowered beings would allow them to relax the need to express themselves in those negative context.
Does that make sense?
向他們展示、示範給他們看、教導他們、與他們分享「他們真的已經是全然被賦予力量的生命」的概念，會讓他們在負面的情境下，較能放鬆地表達自己。
聽懂這道理嗎？
Q: Yes.
Q: 是的。
Does that answer your questions?
這樣有回答到你的問題嗎？
Q: Yes, thank you to you, good day.
Q: 有的，謝謝你，願你安好。
Thank you as you as well.
謝謝，願你安好。
