你進入你的人生，意圖以特殊的方式，爲了特殊理由去體驗你自己(Self 本我)。在你進入此生之前，你是一個意識和一個覺性 (You are a Consciousness and an Awareness before you come into this life.)。那就是說，在你出生之前，你存在爲一個「存有體」，一個「生命體」(you exist as an entity, as a Being)。
靈魂爲什麽會召喚來某個特定的情境或人物，有數不清的理由。 (There are countless reasons why the soul might call a particular circumstance or person to itself.)
There is no such thing as “bland normalcy.” There are only people who settle for that.
Everyone is special, everyone is extraordinary, everyone is talented and skilled and has abilities unique to their purpose for coming here.
Neale: Which is?
You come into your life intending to experience your Self in particular ways, for par- ticular reasons. You are a Consciousness and an Awareness before you come into this life. That is, you exist as an entity, as a Being, prior to your birth.
After deciding how it is that you would like to use your life, and what you wish to understand and experience, you pick the exact and perfect people, places, and things with which to accomplish that.
Neale: You mean we pick our own parents?
Yes. And your parents pick you. This is, at a very high level, a joint decision. In fact, it's true of the coming together of all people.
No one meets anyone by accident.
Neale: Why would I have picked parents who abuse me?
Each soul picks the right and perfect people, places, and events with which to create the opportunity to fulfill the soul's agenda, which is different in every case, and, so, cannot be commented on in general terms.
Perhaps a soul is seeking to experience itself as that quality of divinity known as forgiveness. Or perhaps it is seeking to acquire the compassion to help other people who have been abused, later in life.
There are countless reasons why the soul might call a particular circumstance or person to itself.
Neale: Then there's no such thing as a “chance encounter”?
There is not. Do you imagine that a universe that designs something as intricate and unduplicated as a snowflake produces something as random as a “chance” encounter?