尼爾：在融合的時刻我捨棄了我對我稱為「我」的個體的最後一絲認同，我站在「我」之外，清楚地看著「我」，卻並不在情感層面上與其認同(not identifying at an emotional level)。
Remember that you dropped your sense of personal identity with your mind, and with the thoughts you've held about yourself there, in the second stage of death. In the third stage, you merged with the Oneness.
Neale: And that Moment of Mergence I stepped away from my last sense of personal identity with the individual aspect of being that I have called “me.” I stood aside from “me,” seeing “me” clearly, but not identifying at an emotional level with the being that I was seeing.
Good. You understand.