在死亡的第三階段過程中，每個靈魂都會經歷到「與本源融合」(merge with the Essence)、從「本源」中被推出後進行一生的「生命回顧」(Life Review)，及最後會見造物主，進行「神聖詢問」(Holy Inquiry)。
整個「死亡的三階段」的過程，可以說是提供了一個非常完整又充分地讓每一個靈魂能夠在一種「完全覺知」的狀態下，並在完全的自由意志下，選擇自己是否要離開人世。您是否也和我們一樣，希望這樣的「生命教育」所教導的觀念能夠儘早在我們華人世界裡成為能常被聽見、可廣被探討的選項之一？
聽神談【死後每個靈魂都將經歷的「神聖詢問」】
在我所描述的死亡的第三階段裡，你們會被我親自詢問一個非凡的問題——「神聖詢問」(Holy Inquiry)。
尼爾：是詢問什麼問題？
「你想要留下來嗎？」(“Do you want to stay?”)
尼爾：我知道我對我人生中的每件事都可以選擇，我只是不知道對於我的死亡我也可以選擇。你是說如果我不想留在死亡，我就可以不必死亡？
這正是我在告訴你的意思。
尼爾：這……這不可能。這不……這推翻了我曾聽過的每種說法。我不明白。我們在死亡的時刻可以選擇“繼續前進或是回頭”？
沒錯。這就是那個你會做出的選擇。而這就是第十六個憶起：死亡是可逆轉的。(Death is reversible.)
每個“死亡”的人都可以做出一個選擇：要如何繼續活，以及要活在哪裡。(Everyone who “dies” is able to make a decision as to how they wish to go on living– and where.)
尼爾：你這種說法真有意思。
這是唯一的方式，因為這就是真相(That’s exactly how it is.)，記住，第七個憶起是「死亡並不存在」(Death does not exist.)。
當一個人做了你稱之為“死去”的事情時，那個人永遠都會被給予一個選擇：你是想繼續體驗你剛剛離開的人世呢？還是想體驗一個通往精神領域的實相？
尼爾：你是說每個死去的人都有一個“重返人世”的機會？(Everyone who dies has a chance to “come back to life”?)
是的，靈魂可以在它的體驗裡“反轉”(“undo”) 它剛剛經歷的“死亡”。
尼爾：怎麼辦到的？它到底是怎麼辦到的？
它只需透過它的言語/想像/感受告訴神：「我現在不想死，我想回去。」
每個靈魂都會被詢問：「你準備好了嗎？你想要繼續嗎？」這詢問是最溫和的。所有從物質世界剛“渡過來”的靈魂，全部都會被這樣詢問。
如果其想像/感受/回覆是「是」的話，該靈魂就會繼續前往精神領域。
如果該靈魂請求「回去」，它就會立刻被“送回”到物質世界…… 在它“死亡”前的十億分之一秒 (a nanosecond) 回到物質世界。
摘自《與神談生死》第32章
At the end of your life, in what we have described as stage three of death, you will be asked an extraordinary question.—Holy Inquiry
Neale: What is the question?
Do you want to stay?
Neale: Well, I know I have a choice about everything in my life, I just didn’t now I had a choice about my death. Are you telling me that if I don’t want to stay dead, I don’t have to?
That’s exactly what I’m telling you.
Neale: That’s…that’s not possible. That’s not…that runs counter to everything I’ve ever heard. I don’t understand. We’re given a choice at the time of our death to “go on or go back”?
That is right. That is exactly the choice you are given. And so there is THE SIXTEENTH REMEBRANCE.
Death is reversible.
Everyone who “dies” is able to make a decision as to how they wish to go on living–and where.”
Neale: What an interesting way to put it.
It’s the only way to put it, because that’s exactly how it is. Remember, the Seventh Remembrance is that “Death does not exist.”
It does not.
When a person does the thing that you call “die,” that person is always given a choice: Do you want to experience that the life you have just left is continuing? Or do you wish to experience a reality in which you are moving on, heading toward the spiritual realm?
Neale: You mean that everyone who dies has a chance to “come back to life”?
Yes. The soul can, in its experience, “undo” the “death” through which it has just passed.
Neale: How? How in the world does it do that?
It simply tells God by saying/thinking/feeling. “I don’t want to die now. I want to go back.”
Each soul is asked the question, “Are you ready? Do you wish to go on?” This is the gentlest question. It is asked of all souls who “cross over” from the physical world.
If the thought/feeling/reply is “yes,” the soul continues on its journey to the spiritual realm.
If the soul asks to “go back,” the soul is “sent back” to the physical world instantly…arriving a nanosecond before it “died.”
