【如何走出親人死亡、痛失親人的傷痛？】
巴夏精選短片(3分32秒)【如何走出親人死亡、痛失親人的傷痛？】Bashar 336
影片摘自：2018-Shedding New Light on Negative Beliefs
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中文翻譯：Jimmy
【如何走出親人死亡、痛失親人的傷痛？】
How do I release the fear of losing a loved one?
Q: So, the one of the questions that came up from Ustream was “How do I release the fear of losing a loved one?”
Q: 那麼，接下來有個來自Ustream網路直播的提問：「我要如何釋放失去摯愛的恐懼？(走出痛失親人的傷痛？)」
Well, you have to first understand that your definition says they are lost. They are not. They are still around. You just have to learn how to communicate differently with them.
好，首先你必須明白「你的定義是：他們已經離開了」，但事實並非如此。他們都還在你身邊。你只是須要學習：如何用不一樣的方式與他們溝通。
It’s like saying: “I have lost a loved one because they move to Cincinnati.”
這就像是說：「我已失去了摯愛，因為他們搬到辛辛那提去了。」
Can’t you pick up the phone and call them? Yes, you can.
你不能拿起電話打給他們嗎？你可以。
Can’t you maybe even in some way, shape or form visit them? Well, yes, you can.
你甚至不能以某種方式或形式拜訪他們嗎？ 嗯，可以，你可以這麼做。
Because you do that when you go to sleep, and go out of body. You visit, you talk, you chat, you play.
因為，當你睡覺時以及當你靈魂離開身體時，你就是在這麼做，你就是在拜訪他們、與他們說話、與他們聊天、與他們互動。
You can communicate when you are physically awake, by being sensitive to the communications that may be coming from them.
當你在身體清醒時，你也可以藉由處於「對來自他們的信息感知敏銳」地來與他們溝通。
They will receive your communication, generally speaking, no problem.
一般來說，他們會接收到你的溝通信息，不會有問題。
It’s easier for them to hear you than it is for most of you to hear them, at this point.
在這一點上，相較起來，他們比你們大多數人都更容易聽見對方。
But you’re becoming more sensitive to hearing them.
但你們正變得越來越敏銳，越來越能聽見他們。
And again, remember , they communicate in different ways more often than not, mostly through synchronicity, not necessarily through words, although that can happen. And there are many other ways.
再次，請牢記，他們多半以一些不同的方式在進行溝通，(靈魂)主要是透過「同步性」，不必要透過語言，儘管透過語言的情況也可能發生。還有很多其他方法。
So, the idea is: you are developing a different relationship with the idea even what physical reality is.
所以，這個概念是告訴你們：(在這痛失親人情境下) 你正在建立一種不一樣的關係，甚至建立一種和「你所認知的不一樣的物質實相」。
And when you know it’s more like a dream, then you will understand that they doesn’t have to be such a big separation in your definitions between the concept of physical and nonphysical. They will start to blend together, and as we do in our civilization, you will talk to spirits all the time, left and right.
當你明白這更像是一場夢時，那麼，你會理解：自己對於「物質和非物質實相之間的概念」的定義，並不需要有這麼大的區別。你的物質實相和非物質實相，會像在我們(巴夏)的社會中那樣，開始融合在一起。你隨時隨地都能快速地與靈魂溝通對話。
Our world is full of spirits that we talk to all the time. It’s not just us walking around.
我們的世界四處充滿著靈魂，我們一直都在與他們對話。不是只有我們在四處走動。
Q: So, it’s really about changing your relationship with a loved one when they’re not physically present, and not demeaning the fact that they’re not physically there?
Q:所以說，當摯愛不再以肉體形式出現時，真的只是關於「改變你們之間的關係，而不要求他們以肉體形式在場」而已嗎？
Yes.
是的。
Q: Recognizing that as you focus on it, and work within yourself, you can actually enhance the communication with that person.
Q:承認當你「發自內心地專注在已過世的親人，以及你與對方的關係」時，你能實際地提升你們之間的溝通
Yes. Two things, two important things to understand about this.
沒錯。關於這點，有兩件重要的事你們要了解：
Number one: many times a person will die. Become nonphysical ahead of you, to lure you into more understanding, to focus on the spirit world, because that’s where you need to look, to understand yourself.
第一：很多時候，一個人會死亡，比你更早進入非物質領域，是為了引誘你去觸及理解，以讓你專注於靈魂世界，因為那正是「你需要去關注以認識到自己」的地方。
By trying to reach out and communicate with them, you stretch yourself and start understanding more about your True Nature.
藉由嘗試與他們聯繫，你會擴展自己的意識，而開始更加了解你「自己真實的本質」。(真實的本質是靈魂，不是物質身體)
So that’s sometime a gift that they give you by dying first, and you needing to reach out to them.
所以有時候，他們比你早過世是一種他們給你的禮物，而你正需要跨出去與他們聯繫。
The other thing is to understand… One moment. One moment. We’re having a chat. One moment. The spirit asks that we stop there.
另一件要了解的是….等一下。等一下。我正在與靈魂溝通。等一下。靈魂希望我可以就此暫停談論這點。
Q: Okay.
Q:好的。
There will be more on this at another time, because at another time the information will have a more profound effect.
之後會在另一個時間，更完整地談論這點，因為在那個時候，這信息會幫你們帶來更深遠的影響。
Many of you will get the information in your dreams rather than vocally this way.
你們當中的許多人會在夢中獲得這信息，而不是經由這對話獲得。
