聽神談【排除「壓力」的秘訣】
當你找到你想做的理由,例如錢、證明你能做得多好、利益等,壓力便被排除或取代。
永遠記住這點:利益有許多種形式。(Profit comes in many forms.)
幾乎你做的每件事,你是因爲「在某個層面你能看見自己的利益在裡面」在做。並不是只與「叫你做那事」的人利益有關。
所以說,在別人的利益中看見你自己的最佳利益 (the seeing of your own best interest in the interest of another) 是個「改變每件事」的奇蹟。它在你所做的事情裡,以一種喜悅的感覺取代,排除所有的壓力和憤慨感。
形容它的另一個字是「愛」。
摘自《與神對話青春版 》第6章
It is in finding those areas where you hold mutual interest that the elimination of “bad” pressure is accomplished.
Remember that always: Profit comes in many forms.
Almost everything you do, you do because at some level you can see your own interests being served.
It is not just about the interests of the person “making you do it.”
Now the seeing of your own best interest in the interests of another is a miracle that changes everything. It eliminates all sense of pressure and resentment, replacing it with a sense of joy in the doing of what you are doing.
Another word for this is Love.